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in Memory of my Dad

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in Memory of my Dad

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in Memory of my Dad

john lucas

MY dad passed away last night. One more woodworker gone. He didn't get into woodworking until he retired. He took after it with a passion. He made hundreds of projects and gave them all away. I am the lucky recipient of quite a few. the fun part is (and I inherited it) he almost never made a major project without screwing up somewhere. A mis-cut here, a mis-measurement there etc. I have a Walnut Dresser that had turned legs on the bottom. He wanted me to turn them because he never was a good turner. He sent it to me with the top not installed. When I installed the top I noticed a saw mark about 3" from the back edge on the bottom side. He meant to make that cut along the rails when he was building it to hold the top mounting hardware and picked the wrong board. So I get to laugh every time I use that dresser.

He also hated finishing. My mother finished most of his major projects. He did finish all the little clocks and jewelry boxes he made. I have a trestle table he built and sent to me completely unfinished. I had to sand and finish it which I was glad to do. That was 20 years ago and it still sits proudly in our kitchen.

I will miss him but it was time to go. He had a stroke 3 years ago and had to give up woodworking and really was never the same. Will have to go to Indiana for the burial and won't know when that is for a few days yet.

I'm sure you all know this but if you have time to spend with your friends and relatives don't put it off. At this age things happen quickly. You want those good memories of a last visit. I've spent the last 2 1/2 months driving back and forth to Atlanta to help out and be with him. I'm glad I did.

Here is a photo of one of his many Pie safes. He probably made over a dozen and gave them away to family and friends. Everyone one of them has a flaw somewhere but that's what makes them great.


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Roger Chandler

Condolences to you and your family, John. Those projects he made will serve to help keep his memory ever fresh in your heart. May God's comfort surround you and your family in this time.

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Joe Fleming

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Joe Fleming

John, Best wishes to you and your family. Joe

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Doug Ladendorf

Sending thoughts and prayers for your dad, you and your family. Sounds like you have many wonderful memories and ways to remember him.

Doug

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Alan Zenreich

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Alan Zenreich

Condolences from our family to you and yours.

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George Taylor

Dad's passing

George Taylor

Having seen both of my parents pass in the last few years, I feel for your loss. Even though we recognize the end of their life is near, it is never easy to say goodbye. Take care John and take your time as you wade through the emotional waves the next week or so. Your friends (and you have many here) wish you and your family nothing but comfort and good feelings.

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My Deepest Sympathy.


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Steven Antonucci

Our condolences


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bowlman

My thoughts and prayers are with you, my friend. Indeed, I watched my father for nearly a year after his stroke. I know what you are going through. Words are just so inadequate at a time like this.

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Dick Hines

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dick hines

Sorry for your loss,John

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david delo

Condolences to you and your family John

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robo hippy

Sounds like he lived a long and full life. I would have liked to have met him. You are probably a pretty good chip off the old block...

robo hippy

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Leo Cuellar

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Leo Cuellar

Sorry for your loss, John.

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Deepest sympathy

Jeff Willaford

So glad to know you were able to spend time with him and help out the last few months. You'll always treasure that time along with the other great memories.

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John Kaner

John,

Sorry to hear your Dad passed. It's nice you have things he made and all the great memories.

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This passing can be both hardship and ......

JamieDonaldson

.. .a blessing John. I lost my father 3 yrs. ago, but his "quality of life" issues made his passing a relief for all. Be secure that the memories you shared are a legacy, and know that his memory lives on in those left behind.

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My Sincerest Condolences, John.


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Chuck Engstrom

My condolences, John. The love and effort you have put into his final months will linger in your heart and reward you as you carry his memory through the years going forward.

--Chuck

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Fred Bearman

I am sorry for your loss, John, but you have memories to celebrate and be thankful for And a beautiful pie safe - complete with your dad's special touch. It is a tough time, but the memories are what you will need to carry you through, and the many people here on WC who care about you.

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Dave Stricker

Sorry for your loss John.

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GaryG in MD

John, You have been a good son, and I'm sure all and more than he could have asked for. You made each other happy. He knew you were there, and you'll always treasure his life. Rest easy.

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Brad Vietje

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Brad Vietje

Sorry for your loss, John.

My dad was my introduction to woodworking in general, and turning in particular. In fact, he mad a set of pierced pie cabinets a lot like the one your dad made!

Hoping your fond memories bring you comfort,

Brad Vietje

Newbury, VT

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John Scheideman

My condolences also, John. I, too, have a few pieces that my dad made. They are not made nearly as well as I could make them but they are many times more special. Woodworking isn't just about working with wood. To me it goes so much deeper. I suspect it is that way for many of us. Be glad that you have the gifts that your dad left you and treasure them forever.

John

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Chuck Jones - West TN

Cherish the memories John...

Chuck Jones - West TN

... and I know you will. It's obvious you had a good relationship and you have a good grasp on the realities of life and passing.

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John K Jordan

Oh my, I'm so sorry. Even if you were expecting it, it's so, so hard. My prayers are for you and your family. It sounds like your dad was an incredible guy!

JKJ