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An apology

Russ Fairfield

The following is an apology to everyone who attended my sessions on pen turning at Provo this year.

I know that I was often forgetful and at times was cantankerous to your questions. This was not my normal behavior, and definitely not the way I would normally respond to the questions from a demonstration audience.

The problem at the time was a loss of feeling and a limp in my right leg. Both were getting worse as the week went by. At the time I thought it was a pinched nerve from sitting for 11 hours on the trip from North Idaho to Provo. The truth was that I had a small stroke on my 1st night there.

I have been in physical therapy since getting back, almost back to normal feeling in the right foot and hand, now walking without a cane, and the memory of the past year is returning.

Please accept my apology for any bad behavior during my demonstrations.

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#2

That's scary- glad your OK

John Lucas

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Sean Troy

I couldn't imagine how scary that must have been especially after you found out the cause. Very glad to see you are on the mend.

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Steven Antonucci

Take it slow

steven antonucci

I have a younger friend that had a small stroke, and it took him almost a year to recover most of his faculties. Don't rush it...

Steve

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#5

very scary!

GaryG in MD

Glad to hear that it was "small" and that you're improving -- hopefully back to normal soon. ...Gary

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#6

Wow! Take care of yourself.....

Adrien

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Barb Siddiqui

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Barb Siddiqui

Glad to hear it was diagnosed properly and you're getting better.

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Joe Herrmann

Wow Russ, that's truly scary. Glad you are on the mend and hope you have gotten thoroughly checked out to determine what caused the problem in the first place.

Take care and take it easy...

Joe

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Re: This event means you really ......

JamieDonaldson

...must now look out for no.1 first Russ, and follow the Drs. instructions as well. You may have dodged the bullet this time, and awareness and proper treatment may have saved you from a more major event.

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Thank you, Russ!

David Walser

Russ,

Thank you for making an apology. That's real class and a good example for the rest of us.

It's also teaching moment for me. I try to assume the best about everyone I meet, but sometimes when someone's acting like a jerk I too readily conclude the guy's a jerk. Well, if someone made that assumption about you based on your behavior at your pen demos, they misjudged you. You were not in your right mind, literally. Had we known the truth -- that you were suffering the affects of a stroke -- we all would have made the necessary allowances. We would have judged you a hero for pushing on through the pain and would have discounted any shortness of temper you displayed. So, I'm going to try and remember that sometimes even those who act like jerks really aren't jerks when they're in their right minds.

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Don't be a hero if you're talking about strokes

wilbur

First things first: I'm glad you're on the mend, Russ. I hope you have a speedy recovery.

However, just in case anyone takes this comment to heart:

"Had we known the truth -- that you were suffering the affects of a stroke -- we all would have made the necessary allowances. We would have judged you a hero for pushing on through the pain and would have discounted any shortness of temper you displayed."

If you even think you're having a stroke, this is not a time to be a hero. This is the time to completely wimp out and get to the nearest ER ASAP. Strokes can be events that you can recover from, but in many cases strokes can lead to non-recoverable damage if not taken care of quickly. Brain cells die within minutes of losing their oxygen supply, which is exactly what happens when you have a stroke, which is why strokes need to be assessed and treated quickly. And by quickly I mean that strokes should be worked up by medical personnel within an hour, and treatment given within a few hours, and the sooner, the better.

I really don't mean this to be a criticism of anything anyone here has said. I realize that the above quote was said with nothing but the best of intentions. This is more in the spirit of a public service announcement. Strokes can be taken care of if attended to quickly, but they can be devastating if they aren't, and can bring an end to your woodworking career.

In case anyone is wondering if I am just blabbering, I am a physician. I'm a pediatric hematologist/oncologist, and pediatric patients don't have strokes that frequently, but some of my patients are at higher risk for stroke because of their particular disease, and the principles of taking care of a stroke is one of those things that you learn in medical school, so any doctor would know this.

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Donna Banfield

Russ, I'm glad to hear that you are o.k. and hope your continued recovery is uneventful.

You have contributed a great deal to the woodturning community, and to advancing my woodturning skills, specifically. It is not your time to leave us, because you have so much more to contribute. I am grateful for that and look forward to it.

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David, were you in one of those sessions?

Russ Fairfield

I hope you were able to learn something about pens if you were.

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David Walser

Doctor,

You, of course, are correct. Strokes shouldn't be treated by simply manning up and ignoring them. I should have made that clear. Thanks for clearing up any confusion I may have inadvertently caused.

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Re: Were you in one of those sessions?

Donna Banfield

Not sure if you were directing that query in response to my post, but 'No', I wasn't at your session.

I have yet to have the pleasure of meeting you in person, but look forward to that day.

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JohnKyler

My brother and I were there and had thought you had (past) possibly had a stroke. Had we known you better or before we would have known it was current and not something from the past. Next time we meet we will know better. Get well.

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#17

Aloha and Best Wishes, Russ!

david

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#18

Holy Cow Russ !

Don Orr

Sorry to hear about the problem but glad to know you are well on the road to recovery.

Take care,

Don

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