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How We Self Sabotage Without Knowing It

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Peter Martin

Interesting observation and perspective. Re Buddhism, Nirodha is the Sanskrit term for the cessation or extinguishing of craving. This is the Third Noble Truth of Buddhism and refers specifically to the ending of tanhā which is the kind of desire that leads to attachment and suffering (dukkha). The Four Noble Truths are Buddhism's foundational framework, explaining that life involves suffering (dukkha), suffering arises from craving/attachment, suffering can cease by ending craving, and the path to this cessation is the Noble Eightfold Path (right understanding, thought, speech, action, livelihood, effort, mindfulness, and concentration). They offer a diagnosis and cure for life's dissatisfaction, guiding towards liberation (Nirvana).

 Regarding anger, my mantra is he who angers you controls you.

What do you think about all this?

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>>What do you think about all this?<<

I was hoping liberation would lead to progressive metal or prog rock, and not grunge music. 
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My view. People do things that feel good to them, feel safe, feel satisfying or feed ego. For example, dealing with someone who bothers you a lot and reacting feels good, and it could feed ego. 

Allowing yourself to fail at something without trying hard because you're afraid that if you try hard, you could fail and feel worse, is attachment to feeling safe or ego. 

I think a lot of religions center around avoiding meaningless or self aggrandizing or self-serving attachments, and go pretty far to let people know that life will involve suffering and that bad outcomes may not be avoidable. If buddhism attaches suffering to craving or attachment, it maybe could be a little more objective that suffering may be at the hands of someone else or circumstances created by something else, and it's not for craving or attachment. 

I don't see any of these videos of woodworking or trade guys getting into lifestyle. Anything that comes up like this gets an instant personal ban, and anything that involves woodworking almost entirely, i put on do not recommend on YT. Same with any channel that has any product placement sponsored content that's a core part of a video. 

But that's one of my personal principles - no ads on the internet, no sponsored videos, and no real media consumption elsewhere that's primary purpose is to figure out what to put around commercials. Only my personal principle, though - I know plenty of people who like the idea that an advertisement could clue them into something they might enjoy. I think life is more enjoyable when a whim or urge leads you to do something because you're curious, but not everyone agrees. (have two cousins, also, who think the best thing about television is commercials. Not so much because they're consumers - they're stingy -but they think commercials are entertaining).

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Peter Martin

David Weaver wrote:

I was hoping liberation would lead to progressive metal or prog rock, and not grunge music. 


LOL. I have found that the unspoken 5th Noble Truth only whispered of by adept masters is largely olfactory. :)

Smells like Taylor Swift

Channels that veer off topic to deal with lifestyle don't bother me if they aren't doing it to plug products.  I've noticed a lot of older YouTubers doing this, not to sell anything specific but just reflect back upon mistakes they have made and lessons learned they want to convey in hopes of helping others. I spend so much time on technical stuff devoid of any human connections, I find it interesting to have people talk about what makes them tick, particularly if it differs my my own viewpoints. 

Maybe this resonated with me because although I've never been very materialistic, for the last ten years or so I've found I don't want anything and view all my possessions as a ball and chain around my ankles preventing what I really want to do. But I don't want to be homeless, either, so I guess that leaves me relying on money, which I guess makes me materialistic, no? Hard to find that balance, especially with the financial world in such an unpredictable mess. I think your observation about the ego focusing on security overriding my desire (oops!) to take risks is spot on.

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