Re: size
Pete in Holland MI
Made the urns for my parents. One is in use currently. The other is on stand-by. Dad's still in a plastic bag inside of the urn. My design is of more of a square box design with a removable screwed-on plate on the bottom for access. Once the occupant is in there, there's no real reason for easy access.
Depends too on what you plan to do with it afterwards. Mom & Dad are slated to be buried in some small concrete vaults available at the local head stone store. Check with the local head stone store if they offer vaults, and make sure your container will fit. Some cemeteries require vaults for cremains, others not. If you wish to scatter ashes, something easily openable (screw-on lid), and able to be completely emptied, would be preferred. Something with a lift off lid, like a cookie jar, may be asking for trouble if the container is bumped or dropped. Even a lift off lid can be sealed with Silicone caulk to reduce such an accident.
Best to make such things ahead of time. Tough to do days after a death & you're in a rush. Box it up and put it away for when the time comes. That's what I did. Twas a good plan.
Oh...and.....1 cubic inch per pound is the going calculator. A little bigger is better than too small.
Good luck........