The single most important lathe speed control is the turner's own brain. You don't need a tachometer to know that the wood is spinning too fast. The lathe's shaking and "walking" tells you regardless of how many rpm's some little dial shows you. My first lathe was a reeves drive 12" JET on an angle iron stand that would shake with out-of-balance wood or vibrate with certain cuts at one speed or another in different woods. I lusted after big iron in the beginner's belief that it would make me a better turner. My 900 lb Stubby 1000 taught me otherwise.
I've found stories of people making bowls at 3 or 4 thousand rpms. I regard such methods as more indicative of a death wish than turning skill. I've also talked to people hurt when 'something went wrong' who said "but I was only going at 650 rpm."
How smooth or rough a cut I'm making as I make it is, in my view, the single most important indicator of optimum speed for the task at hand that's possible.
Speed gauge? We don't need no stinking speed guage, man!
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PS
If you really don't like the reeves drive speed change (dial or lever), buy a better lathe that has electronic variable speed control and don't look back