Moderation (long)
Justin W.
>Moderating a forum doesn't seem like it would be any fun. You have to hope that people behave themselves with a level of decorum and respect that encourages frank discussion without causing anybody undue discomfort. The combination of the loose set of guidelines that Ellis has offered and the generally benevolent intentions of those who post on this forum leads to a usually focused and friendly environment.
A blatant advertisement or the use of flat-out obscenity is probably deleted with little fanfare. But as with just about anything else, the borderline cases are the hardest. And that's when it seems like it must be very unpleasant to be a moderator.
I think that William's observations about Cooper's post served as a thoughtful reminder that this is a forum that seems to strive for courtesy and respect. His post was also a very generous insight into the ruminations of the man who has volunteered to serve as the moderator of the forum. Had he deleted the post he might have been jumped on for being autocratic or over-sensitive. Had he ignored it, the discussion might have devolved into unpleasantness between the different camps on the accuracy debate or those who disagree - evidently with considerable bitterness - about how the BP forum was run.
Instead William stuck his neck out by sharing with the whole community his thoughts about the challenges of the job that he's taken on himself for our benefit. He suggested some reasons that the post might have been deleted from BP, highlighted some of the differences between BP and WC, and asked openly whether he should delete either Cooper's or Pam's post. All with a remarkable degree of respect. (And it bears noting that he didn't delete either of them.)
The problem, of course, is that "common decency" is an almost infinitely variable standard. What I might say or do in front of my children is probably different from what my neighbor would say in front of his.
It's true that community standards of decency evolve over time. (Remember that married couples on TV used to be shown sleeping in separate beds.) But William's point is also valid. Personally, I don't have any problem with unmasked profanities if used in an amusing or artful way. But others do. So, arguably, why use them at all?
Ultimately, I doubt anybody really has a fundamental problem with the use of "BS" or "damn." Ultimately it's a matter of context. And determining what context is appropriate (perhaps, "I dropped the damned hammer on my foot") as opposed to inappropriate (perhaps, "That Justin W. sure is a damned self-righteous BS-artist") is where the uncomfortable balancing act begins for a moderator.
Cursing doesn't necessarily require the use of profanity at all. While I might not have chosen the word "cursing" to describe the response to William, I think the fact that William's response was characterized as a "hissy fit" was unfair. But again, it's a matter of opinion - where I saw a thoughtful and reasoned analysis, some saw a hissy fit. While "hissy fit" may not be a pejorative expression for some, I think I'm probably not alone in seeing it as a way of attempting to demean the value of William's post. Finally, telling William that he needs to "learn how to parse sentences to derive their meaning" is just baffling to me. It's hard to imagine how that was intended to be constructive.
It comes down to different levels of tolerance, different ways of self-expression, and different ways of relating to people. William has voluntarily shouldered the unpleasant burden of moderating the forum. I tend to think we should thank him for doing so rather than mock and belittle him for his efforts.
I don't post much here and I didn't post much on BP, but I appreciate the efforts of all of the moderators and hosts past and present who have created and maintained these forums for us.
- Justin W.