Couple of options
Wiley Horne--Glendora CA
>Svante,
You can get a very light finish for maple as follows: First, create a hard surface by planing or sanding to about 1000g, and keep sanding until the wood is almost but not quite burnished; second, coat with dewaxed ultrablonde or platinum shellac. Use light cuts. Degloss and denib the shellac by cutting it back with 600g, and use a light wax.
One other thing I have found about maple is that sometimes the 'color problem' is not that the wood takes on a light shade of color, but rather than the shade is not neutral in tone. A very light dye treatment ahead of the shellac (or even mixed in with the shellac) can create a neutral tone. For example, a couple of drops of green per liter will make a noticeable difference. The exact treatment can be gotten by experiment.
If you're interested, I can refer you to a maple project that I finished not long ago.
Wiley