Re: Steve, Mike, & Sean
dave caudill
>Good topic, this is the stuff I come to this messageboard for. Justification for my out of control habit. I too go back and forth as to how much information I should divulge. While I was away at a tool show last month my wife commented about the number of packages that had shown up while I was gone. Fortunately the day I came back she left for a bile trip so by the time she returned there was no evidence of anything in site.
As long as a nice piece of furniture gets done now and then my wife is pretty accepting. We did have a conversation the other day where I told her I wanted no more snide comments about my hobby if she wanted me to not make any about her bicycle obsession. Upwards of $3000 in the last couple years. And I could care less. And a few years back as I walked into the house holding a plane in each hand she looked at me and asked, How many of those do you need? (A valid but unanswerable question for fear of self in crimination). I smiled and said you know Honey your right, I'm going to go back to drinking and chasing skirts. That was the end of that.
She does like to open my "Tool Closet" once in a while for company and makes comments as to my little shop of horrors and such but no harm done. And she does like using a vintage Stanley Lignum Vitae mallet I have for tenderizing meat now and then. So she does have some appreciation its just not as deep as mine.
The other day a filemakers hammer I ordered showed up and I found her in a chair in the living room totally perplexed. I'm not sure what she made of that. She did have it balanced on her forehead and asked for help getting it off. Her way of making an offhand joke about my weird obsession.
All in all I'm pretty lucky as she likes that my hobby while expensive at times pays some dividends and keeps me out of trouble.
Dave